Your trueself

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PS : Hope this story encourage you to go deeper and self observe about your values


"Family Name is Important by Dad"

"That's oke to make mistake so you can learn by Auntie"

"You do by your own. Proud of you by Kakak"

"We will support your choices by Koko"

Raise in Democratic and Open minded family define your trueself. Having Chinese , Germany and Madura blood makes me divergent and confuse until one day, i observe and learn about the truth of myself.

Each of us learn from our family values and practice in our lives. Even sometime , you rebel and stubborn , well you will never go far than all of the teaching. 

Since childhood, my Dad like to tell stories. A lot of stories about his dream , his passion , his dark secret , his feelings and family values. Continue with my Uncles & Aunties. They become role model until today. Disappoint them is the latest choices. I make poor choices which lead to mess situation but i pay with high price. Because i didn't listen. Now , i learn to listen more. So , my family will proud of me. The challenge is become underachievement in the high achievement family create "not good enough" feelings. Even they never stop to show their love and give space to do what i love.

But still , there is challenges and insecurity make us can't express our feelings toward them. The biggest regret in my life is when i rebel to my Dad then i move to another city because i think he make me lose someone i love , i never say to him that i love him even during our phone called just before he passed away two days before christmas.

Since then , i always hug and say i love you when i can.

My family values :

* Multiculture

* Uniter

* Overprotective

* Idealist

* Visual

* Love to watch movie

* Hugger

* Creative

* Encouraging

* Democratic

* Open Minded

* Stubborn

* Strong

* Persistence

* Sensitive

* Giving

* Honest

* Workaholic

* Doing Movement

After you realize about your truself, you can start to define what will you do related with personal and professional life. It much easier to choose career and define your passion. Because it treasures inside you.

Number 9 from 10 makes me protected by my Dad and my siblings since young. It exhaust me in certain way. My Dad believe in me and like to unite his family through eat ice cream activities with his Jeep. Simple but happy moment.

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Top 5: Surprising Benefits of Ice Cream

There’s nothing like a refreshing scoop of rocky road or very berry strawberry on a hot summer day – but if you’re very health conscious, you might pass on ice cream no matter the season. Well, what if we told you it isn’t so bad for you after all? In fact, if eaten in moderation, ice cream has some surprising health benefits. We’ve got the scoop on five reasons to treat yourself.

1. It may help you lose weight.
If you avoid ice cream because you don’t want to gain weight, this might just change your mind: A study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition found that women who ate at least one daily serving of full-fat dairy products, such as ice cream, gained less weight than those who didn’t. Now, that doesn’t mean you can sit down with a tub of ice cream every night and expect to lose weight. But a half-cup serving of vanilla or chocolate ice cream – which has about 140 calories, 7g fat and 14g sugar – can be a reasonable part of your diet. (Slow-churned is a bit healthier.) Wondering if frozen yogurt is a smarter choice than regular ice cream? Watch this video with registered dietitian Samantha Heller to find out.

2. It may help fight infertility.
Here’s a reason women may want to indulge in ice cream: A Harvard study published in the journal Human Reproduction suggests that consuming full-fat milk or ice cream may improve your chances of having a baby. The study looked at the eating habits of more than 18,000 women between the ages of 24 and 42. Women who ate full-fat ice cream two or more times a week had a 38% lower risk of ovulation-related infertility than women who had full-fat ice cream less than once a week.

3. It has important nutrients.
There is no denying that ice cream isn’t exactly a health food. Its main ingredients are cream, milk, sugar and flavoring. That being said, ice cream does provide your body with a handful of key nutrients, including bone-strengthening calcium and phosphorus, blood-pressure-lowering potassium and energizing B vitamins. It also provides a decent amount of protein, which is important in tissue repair and cell growth.

4. It makes you smile.
Wonder why you feel so good every time you take a lick of ice cream? It’s not just because it tastes delicious. One study found that a spoonful of the cold stuff actually makes you happy. Researchers out of the Institute of Psychiatry in London tracked the brain activity of people eating vanilla ice cream. As soon as the participants swallowed ice cream, they saw an immediate effect on an area of the brain called the orbitofrontal cortex, a pleasure center that activates when people enjoy themselves.

5. It may boost your sex drive.
Need some help between the sheets? Ice cream may be your answer. That’s because it has fairly high levels of calcium and phosphorus, both of which help build your muscles’ energy reserves and boost your libido. If you’re a woman, you may want to choose vanilla over other flavors. A study out of Chicago’s Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation found that when men smelled the scent of vanilla it increased their arousal.

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